“A victim would never return to their abuser.”
On average, it take about 7 attempts for women to finally leave their abuser. Many victims will come back to their abuser because of a trauma bond, housing situation, or false promises.
“On average, it takes a woman 7 attempts to leave an abusive relationship for good.” Jane Clayborne, director of community relations at The James House shelter for victims of domestic violence, came to speak to the doctors, nurses and staff of our Prince George Office during Domestic Violence Awareness Month in October. She shared some insights on what it takes for women to leave – and the many reasons that hold them back.